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how to stay positive :)

There are times when we must go through negative situations. Maybe people say something negative about us, or they show rejection or even resentment against us. In such situations, it may be difficult to stay positive. We may be inclined to react negatively to them. That won’t do us any good though; doing so will just make the situation worse. People may behave even more negatively to us. Our day would be filled with anger and disappointment. At the end, nobody wins.

Though it’s not easy, it’s important to stay positive in negative situations. Beat the negative situations by staying positive. Here are 15 tips on how to do it; pick the ones that work for you:
1. Never respond when you are not calm. If you are not sure that you are calm, don’t respond. Take time to calm yourself down first.

2. Take a deep breath as a first step to calm yourself down.
3. Speak in gentle tone to reduce the tension of the situation.
4. Realize that you can find opportunities in negative situations. Albert Einstein said: “In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.”
5. Look at the content of what people say to you for something positive that you can act upon to improve yourself. Don’t just reject the whole messages.
6. For the rest of the messages which is negative, simply ignore it.
7. Maintain positive view of the people. Maybe you don’t like their messages or behavior, but that doesn’t mean that you can hate them personally.
8. Realize that having negative feelings will just hurt you, not them. So there is no reason for you to have any negative feeling.
9. If you make mistakes, be open to admit it.
10. If you make mistakes, remember this quote by George Bernard Shaw: “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”
11. If you can, listen to motivational audio program to feed positive thoughts into your mind.
12 Talk to a positive friend who can encourage you.
13. Remember your favorite quotes to give you inspiration and motivation. This is one reason why you should have quote of the day.
14. Look at the negative situations as your training sessions for real life. The higher you climb in life, the worse the negative situations would be, so you’d better be prepared for them.
15. Realize that you can’t please everyone. In fact, nobody can. Sometimes you need to just let some people go. Realizing this will relieve you from a lot of unnecessary burden so that you can focus on the people that you can positively interact with.

hmm i wanna try to do it 🙂

keep spirit naaan (gym)

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sebuah rindu :’)

Entah ini ke-berapa kalinya aku menangis untukmu
Sungguh aku selalu tak dapat menahan butiran dari mataku ini saat teringat dirimu
Aku suka caramu menyayangiku, sungguh sungguh suka :’)
Yang selalu mengerti aku
Yang selalu memahami aku
Yang tau apa yang terbaik untukku
Yang selalu menjadi ayah sekaligus kakak buatku
Yang selalu berusaha yang terbaik untukku
Yang selalu memikirkanku (aku tau lho, Mas..) walaupun kau tak pernah sekedar menanyakan kabarku setiap harinya
Ah, terlalu banyak hal yang telah kau lakukan
Aku masih saja teringat akan hal-hal yang membuatku semakin yakin bahwa kau memang benar-benar seorang kakak yang terbaik di seluruh dunia
Aku bangga jadi adik-mu
Entah kenapa aku selalu merasa kau memang seorang kakak yang sangat pantas untuk dibanggakan
Siapa yang tak bangga punya kakak secerdas dirimu?
Yang organisasi oke, kuliah oke?
Yang jauh berfikir ke depan saat yang lain masih memikirkan hal-hal yang tidak penting?
Yang di mataku kau sangat dewasa di antara orang-orang seusiamu
Aku ingat saat kau pernah membentakku, aku menangis setelah itu
Tapi, setelah itu pula kau langsung menghapus air mataku, memelukku :’)
Aku juga ingat saat kau memijat kakiku lama, padahal saat itu kau baru saja dari menyetir mobil 10 jam non-stop
Aku ingat saat kau benar-benar marah padaku
Saat itu aku benar-benar sedih
Maaf hanya bisa diam, aku benar-benar tak tahu apa yang harus kulakukan saat itu
Aku sering kali mengecewakanmu, tapi kau tetap tersenyum untukku
Aku malah pergi-pergi saat kau sudah di rumah, menemaniku
Aku masih ingat kau pernah berkata “mas pulang tu buat kamu dek, kok malah ditinggal-tinggal ki gimana..”
Maafkan aku mas 
Aku sangaaaat menyayangimu..
Maaf jika aku terlalu banyak mengecewakanmu
Maaf belum bisa jadi adik yang pantas untuk kau banggakan
Hanya bisa berdoa
Menyelipkan namamu dalam tiap butir doaku
Menyebutkan namamu dalam tiap bulir permohonanku
Mendoakan agar kau selalu bahagia di sana
Ya Allah 😥
Aku rindu kau, masku tercinta

*didedikasikan untuk mas tercinta : Idlhar Na’im, yang saat kutulis ini, sedang berusaha melewati saat2 menegangkan 🙂 semangat mas ..

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